The Questionnaire

A (non-exhaustive) list of questions I think you should ask before you get married.

May 25 • Harnidh Kaur

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Take Yourself Home

On Indian girlhood, therapy-speak, and the right to leave before your body forces you to.

May 16 • Harnidh Kaur

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April 2026

The Day Of

On launching The Girls Are Not Fine

Apr 30 • Harnidh Kaur

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Bollywood Wants To Be Instagram

But Instagram has no desire to become Bollywood

Apr 18 • Harnidh Kaur

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Don't Marry a Loser

A dispatch from thirty women, multiple bodies of research, a kerfuffle on X and the men who told on themselves.

Apr 10 • Harnidh Kaur

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Almost Good

On AI, authenticity, and the new economics of trust.

Apr 7 • Harnidh Kaur

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I wrote a book! And here’s the cover!

This is not an april fools joke, just to be clear.

Apr 1 • Harnidh Kaur

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March 2026

Is Getting an MBA Embarrassing Now?

A Week Inside Tetr's Bet on the Future of Indian Education

Mar 30 • Harnidh Kaur

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The Gratitude Tax

On Women, Achievement, and the Performance of Thankfulness

Mar 13 • Harnidh Kaur

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February 2026

Nobody Built This For You

And you’re too busy celebrating adoption numbers to notice.

Feb 26 • Harnidh Kaur

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January 2026

Refrigerator Magnets

On therapy-speak, frozen cubes of care, and the performance of being okay

Jan 30 • Harnidh Kaur

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The Anatomy of a Social Media Pile-On

Or yeah, I wrote about being trolled on X. Whatcha gonna do about it?

Jan 19 • Harnidh Kaur

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